Dear Bunmi,
I will soon be 16 years old and of the same age
with a girl I am friendly with next door. We play
with other friends in a big compound and when
no one is looking, we show each other our
private parts.
Now, she wants me to try intimacy with her. She
brags that she has done it before and will tell
me what to do. She says that at my age, I am
too young to father a child.
Is she right? I have never made love and would
love to try it if there is no danger.
Bolade,
by e-mail.
Dear Bolade,
You would be playing with fire if you make love
with this girl. I will advise you to steer clear of
her.
If you are old enough to be stimulated, you will
have a discharge during proper intercourse and
the girl might get pregnant.
She is obviously more experienced than you are
and with the AIDS scare, you have to be really
careful.
I will soon be 16 years old and of the same age
with a girl I am friendly with next door. We play
with other friends in a big compound and when
no one is looking, we show each other our
private parts.
Now, she wants me to try intimacy with her. She
brags that she has done it before and will tell
me what to do. She says that at my age, I am
too young to father a child.
Is she right? I have never made love and would
love to try it if there is no danger.
Bolade,
by e-mail.
Dear Bolade,
You would be playing with fire if you make love
with this girl. I will advise you to steer clear of
her.
If you are old enough to be stimulated, you will
have a discharge during proper intercourse and
the girl might get pregnant.
She is obviously more experienced than you are
and with the AIDS scare, you have to be really
careful.