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    She wanted love-making with me, not marriage

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    She wanted love-making with me, not marriage Empty She wanted love-making with me, not marriage

    Post by olatunji10 Thu Jul 26, 2018 8:06 pm

    Dear Bunmi,
    I lost my wife a few years ago in an unfortunate
    motor accident and had made up my mind to
    remarry. We were married for over 20 years and
    she was a good mother to our three boys. Late
    last year, I was introduced to a divorced lady at
    a close friend’s birthday party and we hit things
    off right away. The love-making was good and I
    was already toying with the idea of proposing
    marriage.
    Then, all of a sudden, her attitude changed.
    Thinking she wanted a re-assurance, I had a
    talk with her that she had my undivided love
    and I would do anything to make her happy.
    You can then imagine how shocked I was when
    she said all she wanted was the physical side of
    the relationship. That she had no wish to re-
    marry and that I had better start shopping for a
    wife-material.
    What type of a woman behaves like this? It
    would have been understandable if she were a
    frivolous teenager, but she’s close to 40. What
    are our women turning into?
    Alaba,
    by e-mail.
    Dear Alaba,
    Women often feel that they are the only ones
    that are used and dumped by men, but your
    experience shows that some women can be
    ruthless in the pursuit of what they want.
    What to you was a big romance was obviously a
    casual fling to this woman. Now she’s telling
    you to get a life! Lasting relationships are built
    on friendship and shared ideas and dreams, not
    just love making.
    Without these feelings, you soon realise you’re
    saddled with someone you don’t really know
    after the love-making cools.
    Keep your dignity, try to wash this woman off
    your life and look for another woman out there
    eager to make a commitment.

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